If you’re considering becoming a surrogate, you might be wondering: “Am I eligible? Would I even qualify?”
The truth is, most surrogates are everyday women — working moms, caregivers, full-time employees — who’ve had a healthy pregnancy and want to give back in a powerful way.
While there are specific criteria (especially from fertility clinics and legal teams), many women are surprised to find they actually do qualify.
In this post, we’ll walk you through the most common surrogacy eligibility guidelines — and help you take the next step if surrogacy feels right for you.
Every agency and fertility clinic may have slightly different criteria, but the following are considered standard across most programs:
Age: 21-42 Years Old
Surrogates must be legal adults, and many clinics cap eligibility in the early 40s for medical safety reasons.
Healthy Weight
BMI (body mass index) plays a key role in how your body responds to fertility medications and how you carry a pregnancy. A BMI between 18 – 34 is required.
At Least One Prior Full Term Pregnancy and Delivery
You must have given birth to at least one child and currently be raising or have raised that child. This shows you understand pregnancy and delivery firsthand.
No Major Complications in Previous Pregnancies
This includes things like preeclampsia, gestational diabetes requiring medication, or premature birth without a clear reason. A smooth, healthy pregnancy history is ideal.
Non-Smoker, No Drug Use
Tobacco, vaping, and illegal drug use disqualify most applicants. Surrogates must also be alcohol-free during the cycle and pregnancy.
Physically and Mentally Healthy
You’ll complete both a medical evaluation and a psychological screening to ensure you’re prepared for the physical and emotional aspects of surrogacy.
Stable Home Life and Reliable Transportation
Surrogacy requires time, communication, and regular medical appointments. A stable lifestyle helps ensure a smooth journey.
While not always strict requirements, these factors affect eligibility or help match you with the right family:
No recent criminal history (for you or anyone living in your home)
No dependence on government financial assistance programs
Supportive partner or household
Willingness to travel for medical screenings (if needed)
Don’t worry — we’ll walk you through all of this and more during your initial consultation.
First — don’t panic. Many women assume they’re automatically disqualified if they’re slightly over the BMI range (our agency offers complimentary health and nutrition coaching), have a minor past complication, or aren’t sure how their situation fits.
We’re here to evaluate each person holistically. You might still be eligible — or you might be eligible with a bit of time or guidance.
“I almost didn’t apply because I thought my age would be an issue. I was 40 and had just had my second baby. My agency reassured me and I ended up being a perfect match.” – Tasha, 41
The best way to know for sure? Talk to us. Our experienced intake manager will answer your questions, review your history confidentially, and let you know if surrogacy is a safe, realistic option for you.
These requirements aren’t about being perfect — they’re about keeping everyone safe.
You deserve to have a healthy, positive pregnancy experience.
The baby deserves to grow in a safe environment.
The intended parents deserve peace of mind during one of the most important chapters of their lives.
We’re here to protect everyone involved — especially you.
If you’ve had a healthy pregnancy, are between 21–42, and feel called to help someone become a parent, you might be a great candidate.
The next step is simple:
You don’t have to know all the answers — you just have to start the conversation.
Hawaii Surrogacy Center
Serving Hawaii & the Pacific Northwest
Surrogacy Center of Philadelphia
Serving Pennsylvania, New Jersey & Delaware
