Every surrogate’s story begins with something deeply personal. For some, it’s the joy of pregnancy and the desire to help someone else experience parenthood. For others, it’s the opportunity to make a meaningful impact while also supporting their own goals — whether that’s paying off debt, saving for a child’s education, or creating a better future.
Becoming a surrogate is an act of generosity, love, and strength. If you’ve ever felt called to do something bigger, this could be the journey for you.
So why do women choose to become surrogates? The answers are as unique as the women themselves, but there are a few common threads that tie their stories together.
At the heart of it all, many surrogates simply want to help someone experience the gift of parenthood. They’ve had healthy pregnancies of their own and know the joy of holding a child — and they can’t imagine someone else missing out on that dream.
Whether it’s a couple struggling with infertility, a same-sex couple, or a single parent by choice, intended parents come from all walks of life. Surrogates often describe the moment of handing a baby to their family as one of the most emotional, joyful, and powerful moments of their lives.
I became a surrogate because I wanted to give someone else the same happiness I’ve had with my children. Knowing I could help make that happen was everything.
Many surrogates report loving the experience of being pregnant — the connection, the sense of purpose, and the awe of growing a life. But they may feel that their own family is complete.
Surrogacy offers them the chance to enjoy pregnancy again while helping another family grow — without the long-term commitment of raising another child.
I loved being pregnant with my daughter, but I knew I didn’t want more kids. Surrogacy was the perfect way to do something amazing with that part of my life again.
Surrogates are compensated generously — receiving $60,000 or more. And for many women, this support helps them meet important life goals.
Some use the funds to pay off debt, go back to school, save for a home, or create new opportunities for their own families. It’s not the main motivation, but it’s an empowering part of the journey.
The money helped us get out of debt and finally start saving for a house. But the impact of what I did — helping someone become a mom — that’s what I’ll remember forever.
Many moms say their children inspired them to become surrogates. They want to raise their kids to be kind, compassionate, and generous — and what better way to show that than by living it?
Throughout the process, kids often become curious and proud. Many surrogates share age-appropriate stories about how they’re helping another family grow.
My son would tell people, ‘My mommy is growing a baby for someone who can’t.’ It was a beautiful way to teach him about love.
Surrogacy is not for everyone — and that’s what makes it so special. It takes strength, compassion, and a truly giving heart. Many women describe it as a calling — something they just felt pulled to do.
Whether they heard about it through a friend, saw a post online, or watched someone else go through infertility, something clicked.
I couldn’t stop thinking about it. I knew in my heart this was something I was meant to do
The women who become surrogates are not celebrities or superhumans. They’re moms, nurses, teachers, caregivers, students — women from all walks of life who choose to give in one of the most selfless ways possible.
Their stories are rooted in love, strength, and purpose.
If you’ve ever felt that same pull… that sense that you could be part of something life-changing… we’d love to talk to you. You don’t need to have it all figured out. We’re here to answer your questions and walk with you — every step of the way.
Take the first step by filling out our pre-screening form. You may be closer than you think to making a dream come true.
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